So seeing as many people will be embarking on their new university adventures in around a month or so I thought I would do a little series of posts called 'The Uni Files' to help many freshers with most things to do with uni life, from cooking to decorating your new room. As I was in this position in just under a year ago I thought it would be ideal to share my own experiences as a way to help calm many nerves in which some people are feeling. This is going to be my final post of this series as it will finalize everything off. Here are a few tips to help you have a (hopefully) smooth move in day and settle those final nerves you have.
//PACKING
In the days counting down to your move in day, double check your packing. If you're missing anything add it in. And if there are things you may not need, chuck em' (like do you really need 5 different trinket boxes because they look pretty?!). This will help you when it comes to unpacking as you don't want to waste valuable socializing time with your new flatmates because you're stuck unpacking 10 different types of hairspray. Also, if you have a long way to travel it will help you have a comfy ride, having your knees up to your chin gets a little boring after the 50th mile.
//OUTFIT
This one sounds a bit stupid, but again with comfort whilst on long journeys it will help if you are wearing something which you are free to move about in and feel comfortable in because you will be doing a lot of unpacking. Also, wear something that shows off your personality, or something which gets people talking. Example outfit, leggings, comfy t-shirt (maybe with an interesting slogan on?) and some trainers.
//ICEBREAKERS
This one will sound really lame and make you feel like you are back in primary school, but think of some questions to ask your fellow flatmates and not just the bog-standard "where are you from?" "what are you studying" etc, something really outside the box. One of my flatmates loved doing would you rather's and he was known for it by the end of the year!
//EXPLORE YOUR SURROUNDINGS
If you have a bit of free time in-between all the unpacking, or you just want to get out of the craziness for a while go for a 5 minute walk around your living quarters. For example, if you're living on campus go have a look where all your classes are. It will make you feel prepared and more at ease.
//IT'S OKAY TO HAVE A TEAR
When I got to Uni, I thought i'd be over the moon to finally have my independence, but considering i'm not really a crier, I balled my eyes out when I saw my parents car pull away because I realized that I would have to look after myself. But after a quick phone call to my friend and a pep talk from her I pulled myself together and went to socialize with my flatties!
Most of all, remember everyone else is in the same boat on this day and some people may not speak to you straight away. Don't take it personally. Most of the socializing begins once the drinks start flowing anyway!
-Tasha
